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Football, Monkeys and Smoky Tea - Month 5 in Malawi

Moni anzathu!! (Greetings friends of ours)

We've had a pretty busy yet restful February! There have been a few moments of stress and anxiety, but many more times of fun, rest and joy.

We've really had fun with church this month! There have been quite a few events which have brought us lots of joy. For example, there was the first CCC sports social! I haven't played football since arriving, so was pretty pumped for it. We went to a nearby pitch after church and had a game of football, the frisbee being thrown around, and a smaller ball also being kicked about. 

It started off with quite low numbers, but before we knew it loads of local kids had joined in and it was pretty packed! The community spirit was great and I really enjoyed that it was so chilled, without strenuous planning or rigid programming but happened naturally. However, I do have to apologise to Dumi who put about 10 chances on a plate for me and I wasted nearly every one of them…so sorry, pepani.


Men's and Women's meetings have also recommenced for 2020. I think we've mentioned them in our blogs before as a real blessing for us both. We love being able to hang out with our friends there, have chances to open up and also to encourage one another.

Men's was pretty casual last week, we met at our place and had leftover cake, coffee and rooibos tea with too much sugar (I'm looking at you Stephen!). Bekah had a much bigger meeting with women though as all the branches' women gathered together for a day of fellowship and fun. She had a pretty great time, there was a lot of dancing, gift giving and cute kids to play with! The location was quite far off, which meant she did a fair amount of driving on very poor roads, and she absolutely smashed it (in a good way, not the car!).


But even the supposedly not so "fun" things like leadership meetings and planning meetings have been full of joy, laughter and friendship. For example, to plan for an Easter celebration service some of our best friends here came over to our place. We made zibwente (deep-fried, battered potatoes - my fave), ate lots of futali (sweet potato with groundnut powder - another fave), laughed at Stephen's funny road directions, chatted with little Hannah Monjeza, discussed fish and also did some planning! It's times like this where we're sharing life together with friends that really fill our hearts with joy and make us so grateful to be here.

One moment of tension during this month was the impending court judgement on 2019's presidential election - see Bekah's last blog/Facebook status for more details. As a precaution, lots of schools shut for the whole week. Whilst this is a shame, it did mean that we had the opportunity to hang out with two girls (Abigail and Anna) from church as we looked after them for the day. Their Dad was a pastor of the church when we first visited 4 years ago, but sadly passed away the following year. But the family still faithfully attend church and it is a privilege to be a part of the kids' lives.

As the oldest child around on a Sunday, Abigail regularly helps and is often our interpreter, so a big shout out for her! They are both so sweet and we really loved hanging out with them! They helped us discover the home of the local tortoise which had eluded us since arriving. With Bekah's help they baked lemon drizzle and managed to drop an entire bag of flour over themselves/the floor. We played new variations of various board/card games which mostly ended up with them putting the shuffled cards back in the correct order…

Don't fall Bekah!!
Zomba Plateau (a big mountain not too far from us)

We got to go to Zomba Plateau twice this month for some R&R which was so great! There are some retreat cottages at the top of the plateau which are fairly basic but also fairly cheap and have the most stunning views (the pics below are all taken from the lounge/veranda area). Like many things in here, you only know they exist through word of mouth, and can only book them if you have their WhatsApp number! Fortunately we've been helped to finds lots like this over the past few months by an English couple (Tom and Sarah, along with their super cute 10 month year old) who serve at a local YWAM base.

Above the clouds (and sometimes inside them)!
Our first trip up to Zomba this month was actually with them as Tom arranged for us all to go there for Sarah's birthday. Then a couple of weeks later we also went for three nights as just the two of us, which coincided with my birthday. As I said, the views are absolutely top notch, so whilst we did do a couple of walks, we spent the majority of our time just sitting outside eating  good food, reading old books and admiring (+ taking too many pictures of) the view! I know it's silly, but at one point I felt so relaxed and happy that I nearly cried. And then to make it better, there were also lots of monkeys!!


The only minor stress was a lack of power for most of our stay due to a HUGE thunderstorm on the first night we were there as just the two of us. However, whilst it was a tad impractical, it resulted in one of the most unique and special settings I have ever had/will ever have for my birthday - with Bekah on top of a Malawian mountain with candles, fireplace, lights from the city of Zomba below and delicious fajitas that we'd just cooked on a log fire in a hut next door. Only negative is that boiling our water in this hut made our cups of tea incredibly smoky - tea is not one of the things that is nice "smoked".


One last little note on our friends Tom and Sarah. Back in October I had a moment of really missing friends back home and had a little cry one day after getting home and feeling a bit lonely. It was actually just 10 minutes after this little cry and pray that I got a message saying that an English couple wanted to meet us and hang out - I'm attributing that one to God, He is v kind! Turns out Bekah had actually messaged Sarah before arriving due to a mutual friend too! We've really loved hanging out with them and have found out a few other coincidences too - Bekah and Sarah both grew up in Bristol; both Sarah's Mum and my Mum went to the same international school in India when they were young; Tom and I went to the same sixth form college in (beastly) Eastleigh (just a few years apart).


This week we're attending some Trauma Healing training led by a guy from our church who works for an organization that helps churches to support orphans. We're praying it will be a real blessing to us, members of the church and the local community as there's lots of pain in people's lives here (and also generally in the world). Please do pray that it goes well!

Also Lindsay Cressey (our very good friend from Grace Church Nottingham who's lead previous trips here) is arriving on Saturday to visit us for 9 days - we're pretty excited! Do also please pray that she arrives safely.

Sorry it's a long one. I tried to cut it down but ended up adding extra bits…oops!

Tionana!

B&B

It got very red one night - dusty!


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